18 Nov 2019    |   by Admin   |   Uncategorized

BORROWED IDENTITY

BORROWED IDENTITY
BORROWED IDENTITY

From the time we are born we are continuously absorbing information, data, instructions, rules, and regulations in our subconscious mind.

From what to eat, how to behave, what to wear, what is good or what we must dislike. This doesn't end here. We are influenced to an extent of what to think, what to say, how to feel, how to respond and so on.

Unknowingly in the native years of our life, we become a record player of people and situations that were remarkable and strong enough to leave a mark. This recorded data keep playing for the rest of our lives and keeps directing, influencing, dominating and manipulating our choices.

Our life is a result of the choices that we make and unfortunately, all our choices are rated by the imprints of the past. As we grow up, we keep making decisions, dreams, and visions based on our choices that are hijacked by the recorded data.

Finally when we hit a rock bottom in life, feel hopeless, worthless, unloved or unwanted we question what led us here in the first place.

Let us Stop and Think. Before the drama of life consumes us and we feel we have come too far to take a U-turn.

Let's ask ourselves questions once in a while -

What do I feel?

What do I like?

Why do I like or dislike something?

What fascinates me, motivates me, influences me?

Why do I feel motivated for whatever I do?

What is it that I am wanting to feel?

What is it that I am trying to create?

Who is it that I am trying to imitate?

Whose appreciation am I seeking?

Why do I seek that applaud?

What is it that I love doing?

What is the purpose of my life?

This list can go on and on.

Now make a list of what you truly love and wish to do. For example :

Do you really want to lose weight and look a certain way because you have learned that looking a certain way is the epitome of beauty? Or you want to lose weight and stay fit because you feel less healthy, less active, less energetic.

When you crave for a New Branded purse, shoes, belt, dress, etc - all yourself "do you really feel happy carrying that?" Is that what you truly need/want? Or you are buying it because you feel happy when people admire and appreciate what you carry. You like being judged and appreciated by those people.

When you plan your career, vision for life or have a big dream - what is it that you genuinely want to feel when you achieve it - money, power, fame? Do you honestly appreciate all that in your heart? If yes - great - go for it !! But if not then please reflect, where is it coming from, who injected in your system that lack money, power or fame makes you less worthy, makes you less wanted and less respected in the society?

With all these examples, all I want to convey is that - when in life we feel that pinch of Identity Crisis and our life seems to have come on a standstill.

Stop - Breathe and ask yourself - what is your Identity? Is it borrowed or real?

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